My First Threesome Request (And Why I Said No)

Posted by Julia | 4 min read

A regular client asked if I'd bring another girl to our next appointment. "Just thought it might be fun to try something different," he said.

I'd never considered threesome bookings before. The money would be good - rates basically double for two providers.

But something about it made me uncomfortable.

First, logistics seemed complicated. Finding another provider I trusted, coordinating schedules, managing group dynamics.

Second, safety concerns multiplied with multiple people involved. Harder to control the situation or leave if problems developed.

Third, I wasn't sure how to handle payment, boundaries, or responsibilities in a group setting.

Most importantly, it felt like crossing a line I wasn't ready to cross.

Regular escort work I can compartmentalize as professional service. Group sex felt more like porn or something outside my comfort zone.

I told my client I didn't offer those services. He was disappointed but respectful about it.

"Maybe in the future if you change your mind," he said.

But I probably won't change my mind. Some boundaries exist for good reasons.

Other girls do threesome bookings successfully. It's not wrong or bad. Just not for me.

Everyone has different comfort levels about what services they provide. Important to know your limits and stick to them.

The extra money isn't worth doing things that make you genuinely uncomfortable.

My Asian escort client found another provider who works with partners. Everyone got what they wanted without me compromising my boundaries.

That's how the business should work. Clients find providers whose services match their interests. Providers don't pressure themselves into uncomfortable situations for money.

Knowing what you won't do is as important as knowing what you will do.